Tips & Advices for Dating

K... i know i am a female and your probably wondering why a girl would give you advice about guys? well i have grown up with guys i never really have any friends that are female so you can tak this for what you will. Guys hate it when girls are evasive about stuff! get to the point about things... if you feel a certain way say it when you feel it. if you dont like him hanging out with his ex dont have other people watch him let him know... but be considerate of the time and place in person is better than over the phone. sometimes it's hard but look them in the eyes! Dont let a guy tell you your too emotional once you tell em your feelings, you cant help the way you feel, and you certainly can't change it either. but before you say anything about feelings be sure it's relavent and be sure thats the way you feel. dont bring up stuff he did 2 weeks ago either. live in the present and be assertive. this advice isn't going to work for everyone, i do see many females being very male dependent! realistically do you need a guy in your life? if you answered yes this advice is deffinatly not going to help you! just keep it real dont lie or play head games, if you have to play "hard to get" with a guy he's not worth your time. the most important thing is

1) know yourself

2) be comfotable with who you are.

if you dont have those things the relationship is doomed to failure!