A few tips
So I thought about some things when dating and I thought about some things I haven't seen a lot lately.
1) Affection towards the guy - I've been on a few dates where the girl doesn't show how she feels. In no way, shape or form does the girl ever get close. Sometimes it's cool for the girl to make the move, it shows she's really into the guy. It makes a guy feel good. If you're shy working on being open with that guy.
2) Second Chances - You know this is a big one for me. HUGE. A lot of girls I know NEVER give second chances no matter how small the problem may be. You know if something is up tell him. TELL HIM. If it's small and he wants to keep you he will try to better himself, that's what makes dating work. I mean I'm not saying try to change him but allow him to better himself. Sometimes people make mistakes, get over it. Example - If he comes on to strong, yeah it can be weird but tell him to lay off just a bit. You know he obviously likes you just give him a chance to prove himself. But it is cool to draw the line after like after the third chance, I'm not saying to give him unlimited chances just allow him to prove himself a second time.
3) Treat Him - You want a guy to think you're really incredible treat him to something. Surprise him by like coming to his work and bringing him some food. Ask HIM out on a date. Get him something small that you know he likes. Switch the roles around for a day. You don't have to spend a lot of money by any means just do something that he'd normally do for you but for him. He'll be that more willing to do stuff for you if you sometimes treat him.
To tell you girls the truth sometimes guys want to be treated special. Maybe it sounds weird but it shows you really care for him and he'll be that much more willing to do things for you. Second Chances, Gifts, and showing affection helps a lot and shows he means something to you. Be cool about sometimes taking the wheel. IT'S RELIEVING BEYOND BELIEF for some guys. Hopefully this helped a little. Catch Ya Later.
1) Affection towards the guy - I've been on a few dates where the girl doesn't show how she feels. In no way, shape or form does the girl ever get close. Sometimes it's cool for the girl to make the move, it shows she's really into the guy. It makes a guy feel good. If you're shy working on being open with that guy.
2) Second Chances - You know this is a big one for me. HUGE. A lot of girls I know NEVER give second chances no matter how small the problem may be. You know if something is up tell him. TELL HIM. If it's small and he wants to keep you he will try to better himself, that's what makes dating work. I mean I'm not saying try to change him but allow him to better himself. Sometimes people make mistakes, get over it. Example - If he comes on to strong, yeah it can be weird but tell him to lay off just a bit. You know he obviously likes you just give him a chance to prove himself. But it is cool to draw the line after like after the third chance, I'm not saying to give him unlimited chances just allow him to prove himself a second time.
3) Treat Him - You want a guy to think you're really incredible treat him to something. Surprise him by like coming to his work and bringing him some food. Ask HIM out on a date. Get him something small that you know he likes. Switch the roles around for a day. You don't have to spend a lot of money by any means just do something that he'd normally do for you but for him. He'll be that more willing to do stuff for you if you sometimes treat him.
To tell you girls the truth sometimes guys want to be treated special. Maybe it sounds weird but it shows you really care for him and he'll be that much more willing to do things for you. Second Chances, Gifts, and showing affection helps a lot and shows he means something to you. Be cool about sometimes taking the wheel. IT'S RELIEVING BEYOND BELIEF for some guys. Hopefully this helped a little. Catch Ya Later.
by Jason. update: 01.18.2007
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